Behind the flame

Hi, I’m Chelsea — the heart and hands behind The Rule of 3. What began as a personal practice of crafting candles and ritual tools for my own spiritual journey has grown into a space for others to connect with their own magic.

Each creation is an expression of intention — a way to honour the power within and the energy we send out into the world. My work blends shadow and light, spirit and craft, offering tangible tools for transformation, reflection, and ritual.

When I’m not creating, you’ll find me spending time with my husband, our two beautiful daughters, our fur baby Bindi, and our bearded dragon, Buffy. My spare time is spent learning about anything and everything that deepens my connection to the world around us — from the natural rhythms of the earth to the unseen magic that weaves through it all.

A woman sits on the floor in a dark room lit by candles, holding a small lit candle in her right hand, with various candles and candles containers on tables nearby. She has shoulder-length hair, tattoos on her left wrist and thigh, and wears a black hoodie and boots. The room has dark decor with plants and decorative items.